DO NOT FEEL INFERIOR

 

 

Do not feel debased or rejected or inferior,this is what your thought builds up... It is natural that human can feel somewhat inferior to everyone else at times during their lives. We tell ourselves that we aren't good enough, pretty enough or smart enough; yet these comments are in no way based on facts.Your 'inferiority' as you may refer to it, can also be seen as a unique or individual quality. What makes you feel these things are 'inferior' to everyone else? If there is no norm amongst human beings, how can there possibly be any form of inferiority?

No matter the challenges life has thrown you into,you have to accept its all for the better. Do you think people will stare at you or make comments? These are all valid worries but do bear in mind - everyone is different. Any comments you receive are invalid and must be ignored at all costs. It's absolutely certain there is something they think is wrong with them, too,and that thing for example ,for your ex-hubby ,never refer to your differences as inferiority, never listen to anyone who puts you down,because he is in rightly wrong that could lead him to hell fire,Bible did not tell us about a man getting along to marry a fellow man ,any who does it is prepping for his place in hell.

Do not bring your son to like or be fond of the new partner of your ex-hubby ,it is going to destroy you what you set your mind on achieving  and you have to try and make sure Juda does not become fond of him unless you are not concerned about the little boy.....try to avoid exposing Juda to him,because you never know when he would start teaching him the hypothesis of gay theories and filter useless facts about how gay works or what makes it part of God's plan for human.If you are truly against anything they share or believe ,the new partner of your ex-hubby must be out of the picture in your son's life,whatever way that has to be done, have it done.Positivity attracts positivity .Because if you fail to do that then the picture,the memory ,the pains and this sadness will keep revisiting ,but bear in mind that life is what you make it.I would say,do not embrace so much about your ex-hubby,or what he wanted to make you look like.His era has gone in your life,you need a new lease of life,and you have to try and pretend nothing happy and turn a new leaf.

As for your ex-hubby not wanting to sign the divorce papers means he has got plan B.He is either weighing up options or he is trying not to involve in bringing Juda up ,which ever way I think he wants to take advantage and frustrate your God-given life.But I think most frequently people who like frustrating others often do so to further their own end and achieve a purpose.But you have to fight your course to lead a better life than he has anticipated of you,he would try to achieve this by making you feel inadequate and unsuitable.It's up to you to reject all those his wishes and plans.

There is a hunger for perfection in every human being, either physically, financially or otherwise. We know it’s unattainable in our hearts, but something  gives us hope that it’s possible to get. Therefore, once you see someone (who in your mind) is closer to perfection than you are, you start to feel inferior for your lack.You ex-hubby wants to attain perfection ,but the true fact is there’s no perfection in humanity. Perfection is not in our design or nature,he thinks  by being gay he could perfect his life or have gone round the life circle human perfection,but that is a lie.

I want to assure you that remaining in a state of inferiority comes with envy for what the other person does  and the feeling of stagnancy in your life; because you are so focused on what you do not have and what others do, you may lose touch of what you do have and miss out on how to get to a place of having all that you desire.Be careful as this is important aspect of my advice to you now,if you ever lose sight of what you have set your mind on due to your worries by feeling of inferior ,you are going to remain in sadness all the time and this could be devastating to your state of mind for a very ,very long time.

Like I said earlier on,positivity attracts positivity,try to hang on to good people,good things,everything that there is,so when you are happy with yourself, you start to attract happy things and situations. You may not have got your desired goals in life but it is essential to remember you are trying to achieve what want, and not the odds and ends that your ex-hubby or any one else anticipated of you through and through.

Bear these things in mind and do not forget what I say to you on daily. As for being lonely ,you are not lonely,am here for you,sometimes I try to squeeze out times to talk to you,even when it's tight due to work schedule,or anything.So do not consider yourself a lonely woman,like i said, life is what you make it.What would you say about me,I have got no wife,nor a girl ,but I don't consider myself a lonely person because i try to keep myself busy and be happy.I know is not easy to be a single mother ,but its not going to be that way for a life a time,everything changes,and change is the constant thing.So cheer up ,when you are at odd ends,turn to the bible,anything to keep you in the right frame of mind.

--Patrick Amaefule

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

By Patrick Amaefule :

Nigeria is not trying oo.Millions of people are dying of hunger in Nigeria while a Minister of Aviation ,Miss Oduah would be said to have used $1.6m to buy a customized bullet Proof car.Whether it be true or not ,my question is ,how do we expect this country to be better when this type of thing has taken a greater toll among the the people who called themselves our leaders.

I do not wish to insult anybody but I am so disappointed in our leaders,all of them from them and no exception.Millions of graduate roam the streets without no jobs,no incentives,no prospect of securing job in the later times,everything looks gloomy.I just check on the population of applicants that applied for an on-going immigration recruitment exercise ,they are about over a millions applicants. How are we sure this country has a future with the way things are? I am just sitting down and watching.If God did not intervene,i won't be surprise if everything took a nose-dive ,and resulting to an unimaginable crestfallen that will perturb the minds.

This is the 7th year since I graduated from university without any job after too many applications submitted here and there,online ,hand-written and more,all to no avail. There were young men and women i know who graduated from university even before i finished secondary ,these young men and women had turned to men and women and in their 40s and late 40s,and they toiled all the years with a hope of getting a job -all without any success and they have retired in their quest for job search,no companies or government agencies would consider them eligible for employment now as age is no longer on their side.Is this life? Does is encourage a youth? The answer is capital NO

To state but a few as time would not permit me to give account of the demeaning it's causing to the image of Nigeria ,it's causing a severe loss in the dignity of and respect which Nigeria stands for,it's not a good acknowledgement and does not say anything good about Nigeria.The problem of this nation is beyond measure ,and if Nigeria must stand firm,If this country must stand tall,its high time the leaders take the youth so seriously and handle them as a fragile project that should be treated with great sense of attention.

His Excellency, Goodluck Jonathan should take this into account because is not funny that after spending 5 years in the university burning candles ,some which i even borrowed from my class mates and room mates,would still be capsizing like a rocking boat ,without a job to show for it ,and people at home are starting to make make snide talks,thinking one just spent half a decade in school with a badge of honour or degree.This is actually starting to hurt so badly and its no longer funny.Until every body starts jumping over bridges and into oceans to commit ihie ana amaghi aha ya, then uwa ga mara na odikwa very risky.

This country is hurting me so badly and am not finding it any funny at all.But this country is so rich in everything,well blessed by God Almighty,we lack nothing ,yet we lack everything.If you l'd say you are comfortable with the way things are going in Nigeria ,i would assume you had never put on pair of shoes that hurt so badly.I have responsibilities,i have young ones to care for.But i want to let the world know that People are starting to jump from fry pan to fire.Thank you, beloved brothers and sisters.No hard feelings and do not take it personal Thanks,brothers and sisters.I have said my mind.

Why I Quit Smoking – Obama

US President Barack Obama said on Monday that he stopped smoking out of fear of his wife, in an unwitting admission captured by a loose microphone.
The US leader, taking part in an event on the sidelines of the annual UN General Assembly on the importance of civil society, was exchanging small talk at the end of his remarks.
In a recording taped by CNN, Obama is standing up after the event and asking the man next to him if he had given up smoking.
When the question is returned to him, Obama, in a light-hearted tone with a smile on his lips, said: “I haven’t had a cigarette in probably six years. That’s because I’m scared of my wife.”
Usually known for his fit figure and healthy lifestyle, Obama has long had a weakness for cigarettes and depicted himself as a smoker in his memoir of his youth, Dreams From My Father.

Obama’s smoking habit and his efforts to quit became favourite topics in the US media from the time he started his campaign for the White House in the 2008 election.
In his first year in office, Obama described himself as “95 per cent cured” from smoking but admitted he has occasionally “fallen off the wagon” in his efforts.
In December 2010, then White House spokesman Robert Gibbs said that Obama had not smoked for nine months and had been “stubborn” in trying to quit, despite the stress of the job.
First lady Michelle Obama, a campaigner for public health, has been open about her distaste for her husband’s smoking but said that he never lit up in front of their two daughters.
In February 2011, she said that the president had not smoked for a year and that she was not giving him a hard time about the issue.
“When somebody’s doing the right thing, you don’t mess with them,” she said. [AFP]

BREAKING NEWS --Britain legalises gay marriage as Queen Elizabeth gives assent

 

 

BREAKING News**

Britain legalises gay marriage as Queen Elizabeth gives assent

LONDON – Britain legalised gay marriage on Wednesday after Queen Elizabeth II gave her royal assent to a bill approved by lawmakers, the culture ministry said.

Same-sex couples will be able to marry from next year after Prime Minister David Cameron pushed the legislation through against the will of dozens of his own Conservative lawmakers.

Members of parliament cheered as they were told the historic bill, pushed through by Prime Minister David Cameron despite opposition within his own party, had passed into law.

The first gay weddings are expected in the middle of next year as the government is sorting out issues such as the impact on pensions.

“This is a historic moment that will resonate in many people’s lives,” said Culture Minister Maria Miller, whose department was responsible for the bill.

“I am proud that we have made it happen, and I look forward to the first same sex wedding by next summer.”

Lawmakers in parliament’s lower House of Commons formally approved the bill on Tuesday night, a day after the upper House of Lords gave it the nod.

The queen’s assent, given in her capacity as head of state, was then announced in both chambers of parliament on Wednesday, at which point it became law.

“I have to notify the House in accordance with the Royal Assent 1967 that Her Majesty has signified her Royal Assent to the following acts… Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill,” John Bercow, the speaker of the House of Commons, told MPs.

The cheers that greeted the news belied the stormy passage that the bill had through parliament, during which many of Cameron’s Conservative lawmakers opposed it. VANGUARD

I saw Whitney Houston,Gadhafi in hell and they gave me messages"-Woman narrates her 2nd visit to hell

I read this interesting revelation by a woman named Sister Linda.It is actually the 2nd part of her visit to hell and she names those she saw there with messages they sent her back to earth with.The likes of Whitney Houston and co..Just read and ......

Jesus went with me to hell this time, when I was with Jesus, the brightness of Jesus; Jesus have light all over His body, when we entered that dark place, I was seeing, I could see, this time, the people in hell because of the bright light on Jesus (Jesus is walking with a bright light, a glorious light).

And then, Jesus opened my eyes to see some of these men and women in hell. Jesus gave me message to Sierra Leone, He said if I should have come in December to January only five people in Sierra Leone would have raptured five only. That includes the three righteous pastors and five other people in and out of the church, when I said this in Sierra Leone, people said it is lie.


Jesus said Sierra Leone is polluted; that the shepherds he gave the word to preach to His people in Sierra Leone are dying to meet God, but majority are in hell. So Jesus sent me to Sierra Leone

When we were in hell, Jesus showed me a glass-like aquarium with people inside it, the souls of human who are still on earth are in that glass inside hell. These are people on earth who are working for demons, we have some people on earth who don’t believe anything, they are on their own, doing all sorts of bad things, even pastors who knows the truth but are bowing down to Satan,  they are partakers of Satan’s communion, their souls are in that place.

Gadhafi in Hell
And Jesus pulled out a man from the fire and he introduced himself to me, he said, “I am Gadhafi” (because you won’t recognize him because the fire has destroyed him, he said, “I am Gadhafi, former Libya president”

Gadhafi said,
“Tell my Libya people to worship Jesus” he said, “Tell my people to believe in
Jesus”, he said, “Ah Jesus, have mercy, I never knew you are the right way, have mercy on me”.


He said, even the people who killed him on earth, he doesn’t want them to come to hell, he said “Tell my people to believe that Jesus is the right way”

He also gave me another message (why he gave me this message is because, he said, the entire mosque he built on earth should be destroyed and turned into churches so that people will glorify Jesus and maybe the punishment on him in hell will decrease. Because anything here on earth that you build that does not glorify Jesus Christ, that does not glorify God, that does not make people to come to their right Father(hotels, bars etc.), anything sinful in the world that you build (when you die, you leave these things on earth). People will be there doing all sorts of evil things, as far as people are enjoying these places, or practicing all sorts of evil things, in the place that doesn’t glorify Jesus Christ, the demons will increase the pain on you in hell.
So he said, “Please so that the pain will decrease, I know if people will worship in my mosque, if they will call Jesus there, maybe the pain will decrease”

And Jesus said, “It is too late”.

I saw another president (Former president of Guinea).

While Jesus showed me these presidents is because He gave me message for Sierra Leone president. But when I met my Sierra Leone president, he loves God. He obeyed the message; I thank God for his life, because men of God were saying all sorts of things, but the president obeyed the message of God.


President Lasana Conte, former president of Guinea, he said, “Tell my people in Guinea, let them Jesus over Guinea, and let them turn to Jesus because Jesus is the only way.”

He said where he is, he doesn’t want anyone to be there, he said tell my people to believe and trust in Jesus, he said, he built a cult that he was sponsoring and he was also in the cult. He said, he wants the people to destroy that cult, let them come to Jesus.


And one famous Lawyer that died: Usher Williams, he was the deputy speaker of House of Parliament in Sierra Leone House of Parliament. He was in one cult, they call the cult in Sierra Leone “Louch” and he was in devil business, ordaining devils. He said I should tell his “Louch” brothers that they are heading to hell, all his cult brothers that died before him, he saw them in hell, he said “Please destroy louch, destroy these devils” he said, “turn to Jesus, He is the only way, hell is real”.

And then, I saw one prophet: Prophet Mani, he was the owner of the Burning Bush, that man said he would die but that he would also rise up after three days. And when he died, they took his body to the mortuary, his congregation said that they should not bury him, after three days he did not rise again, he was there for one month until the mortuary people said they should come and take their corpse away.

I saw this man in hell; he said
“tell the people that I did miracles and signs and wonders with communions, these communions, those anointing oil, I ordained them and dedicate them to the demons” he said, tell them to go to a church where they can be delivered or else if they die they will go to hell because I ordained them for Satan; Satan was the one giving me all these powers.”“And tell them to destroy my church because the foundation is from Satan, everything up to the roof is from Satan”.

I saw one woman- a musician I liked so much- I always listened to her music when I was in the world:Whitney Houston: she said,
“tell my mother to take my only daughter to church, that all the finances I left behind should be used to support God’s work. Let them support Jesus’ ministry, let them support holiness ministries, let them support God’s work. Let them support Christians- the right Christians. She said she wants her child to grow in Christ and know Jesus.
“Please tell my mother; Jesus please have mercy, let me go back to the world and tell people that you are real, let me tell these musicians”

And Jesus said, “It’s too late”.

I saw my biological parents in hell; my mother, my father and even my grandmother that just died this January ( I don’t like talking about them)- sobs- it’s very painful, it’s only the grace of God, I don’t like talking about hell, some times when I am asked to come and give testimony, I don’t like to, because I know I will reach this part. And one day, Jesus said, if I stopped preaching His word, He will destroy me.


So I always pray to Jesus, whenever I stand to give this testimony, to give me the boldness and strength, because any time I think of my parents, I loved my mother so much but she didn’t know Jesus.
She was crying; she said, “Please I miss you guys, tell your sister to follow Jesus, I don’t want you people tom come here”

Please mother , don’t leave your children behind, you know the truth right now, take your children along.

I didn’t recognize my mother anymore. I don’t want to go to hell (I love my mother so much, I use to say anywhere my mother is, I want to go, when Jesus showed me my mother- I don’t want to go to hell, I don’t want to be with here there.

Don’t go to hell, hell is not a place for people like us.

And God showed me a young boy, about five or six years old, because of witchcraft, God say I will judge all men.

When Pastor Ken Paul said a child can go to hell, I argued in my mind that God would not do something like that, but God showed me this boy, a small boy, because of witchcraft.

Satan is wicked, now if you go to crusades in Sierra Leone and they say witches should come out, you will see small-small children

When you are coming for a program like this, don’t leave your children behind; come with them so that Jesus will deliver them. If you leave them and they die, they will go to hell, no matter how small they are; as long as they have sense and know what is bad and good.
I saw another woman who was in Thailand when she died, she was a believer in Jesus married to a Muslim, then backslide. She said I should tell her daughters, “I loved their father so much and trusted him, not knowing that this man was in occultism”, he sacrificed his wife

She said, tell them to go out and stand firm in the church, in Jesus who is the only way

She gave the man’s name and address. When we return back from Nigeria, we will try and go and do a tour.

A TRIBUTE POEM TO CHINUA ACHEBE

A TRIBUTE POEM TO CHINUA ACHEBE

by Patrick Amaefule





I will cloy me with egregious wine,
if he re-course to rest, I won't dine;
his demise lives me open to reproach;
death that made me felt like cockroach,
a thief with trait that reeks;
City’s reeled of its re-entry this weeks.
Embrace me, O vice of drunkenness;
on the day of Achebe's death,
I will clothe me with tears which a death of no importance chiselled in me;
to learn of the mystery ,
I have grown much older than fledgling;
not any more regarded as stripling.
I’m not destitute of sheer senses;
the blind could see it without lenses.
by his death, I strut on the stage with independent feet;
and keep up appearances without great feat;
I could not guide my faculties with orison;
with earnest haste I crave for benison.
Drunk though as I am, I keep reckoning him;
few among many speak ill of him;
He made learning a house of stone;
it pinnacle seemed like cone;
a place where I learn new tricks;
palace of castle built with bricks,
where I resort for joy
Alas, why this extinction? The gift endowed us with is the envy of our enemy.
The man who sure knew the manner of the day is gone,
the laureate who best knew the way to the happy ending,
possessed the strength of youth in the morning,
held the sapience of age as an octogenarian.
Good bye the great man of the East

TO KEEP NIGERIA ONE IS A TASK

TO KEEP NIGERIA ONE IS A TASK

By Patrick Amaefule







 Like many other African nations, Nigeria is an artificial institution initiated by former colonial authorities which had neglected to consider the dichotomy, religious, linguistic and ethnic differences. Nigeria, which obtained independence from Britain in 1960, had at that time a population of about 60 million people consisting of almost 300 differing ethnic and cultural groups.

The integration and unification as one common structure was made successful by Great Britain and was designed out of West Africa containing hundreds of different ethnic groups, calling it Nigeria. The area was made of many different groups, the three predominant groups were unarguably the Igbo, which formed between about 60–70% of the population in the southeast, the Hausa-Fulani, which formed about 65% of the peoples in the northern part ; the Yoruba, which formed about 75% of the population in the southwestern part.

The Federation of Nigeria, as it is known today, has never really been one homogeneous government, for it widely constituting peoples and tribes of diversified culture and interest. The easily understood fact notwithstanding, the former colonial powers decided to bring the deferring groups together as one in order to effectively control her vital resources for their economic interests. From the time mentioned until the present the only familiar thing these groups had was their common name-Nigeria because each differing aspect had unique administrative ambit and pattern. This exclusively was an insubstantial foundation for true unity.

A unification that should have brought various peoples together and provided a formidable system of proceeding for the tiring task of establishing closer cultural, social, religious, and linguistic bonds absolutely necessary for true unity among Nigerians. There was division, hatred, unhealthy rivalry, and pronounced disparity in development. The Governor General of Nigeria between 1920 -31, Sir Hugh Clifford, described Nigeria as “a collection of independent Native States, separated from one another by great distances, by differences of history and traditions and by ethnological, racial, tribal, political, social and religious barriers."

It would be pertinent to digress a while ,let us consider and try to consider this new force that entered Nigeria ,The Face Of Provocation From North, popularly known as Boko Haram .
Ever since Boko Haram opened the Pandora’s Box and from that moment, the pertinacious paroxysm created by their intermittent attack on Christians in the North, many, especially Igbos have been wondering if a common course for unity is still vital as a sole dream to be actualized by the three most prominent groups that were duly amalgamated by our erstwhile colonial masters. The true tragedy of the last sixty years, before and after our independence in 1960 is that the entire effort has been a monumental depression against the Igbos.

The faceless face of Boko Haram has swayed for half a decade now causing pandemonium and has repeatedly showed humiliating footage and cartoons of the slain Igbos forcing the Igbo community to want to secede, though Igbos have had a good reputation under the umbrella of Nigerian tunic, but obviously their tolerance and patience have endured enough territorial limit even as they have been provoked beyond measure and for the sake of harmony, wear calmness as clothe but the Northern militants(Boko Haram sect ) and their sponsors( Northern politicians) should not misconstrue Igbos endurance as white-livered.

There is every indication that with only residual power left to the central government, Nigeria politically has taken a turn for the worse, and there is truly an obvious possibility of three countries emerging out of Nigeria unless we must commit ourselves and our entire strength to finding a viable solution to our national predicament which has not favoured the Igbos. The entire weight of our national aspiration cannot be balanced if Nigeria failed to put an end to genocide against the essential cog (Ndi Igbo) upon which the nation’s foundation all depends.

It is pertinent that I remind us of the mass exodus of over 300,000 Igbos from the North to the East resulting from agitation of many riots and Igbo killings in August, 1966, a replica to the chains of brutality, unprecedented bombing and killing of Igbos in the North in this era. For all it signifies, it is visible form of indifferent believe and devil’s conduct. It has recreated disaffection and panic, there is persistent preoccupation in the minds of those victimized, and as Igbos wake to consciousness, the gap between the regions widens, a wake-up call for the act of secession rings bell in their ears, unity has deteriorated, assurgency calls for new sovereignties as Nigeria wears a look of disintegration, it is approaching a terminal stage.

Sooner than later people must carry their differing culture hoist a flag of their beloved republic and ostentatious flaunting of tunics that represent many hues of a common symbol.

‘Nothing will happen in our nation, in our society which did not first happen in our minds. If wrong is rampant, if indiscipline is rife, if corruption is the order of the day, we have to search our individual minds for that is where it all starts’---Justice Oputa

Sir Hugh Clifford, described Nigeria as ‘‘a collection of independent Native State, separated from one another by great distances, by differences of history and tradition and by ethological, radical, tribal, political ,social and religious barriers ’’.

The building of Nigeria as a multi – lingual state will continue to be faulted if the ugly wing of tribalism and sectionalism of the Northern parents fashioned by many of the political leader of the North are not detracted. The leaders ride with their notorious wing, secretly heralding as crest of perpetrators, they are the sponsors of the Islamists-fundamentalists killers of the fellow citizens which Igbos are taking the highest extent of loss of lives and properties.

But civil response of the Igbo seen in the face of extreme , continual cold blooded murder of Igbos does not make them poltroon .Nation’s interest has derailed ,its direction has constantly strayed away from a strong centre towards a formidable union of differing ethnics groups that proclaim continuity and harmony.

This Federation had an ailment from inception and by January 1966, the bedridden, ailment child broke down.
From independent to January 1966 and to this present day, the Federation system called ‘Nigeria’, has been in a serious commotion, but the genocide targeting the Igbo nation put Nigeria in a worse situation.

Most of the bombing sponsors are from Northern territories, thus the Northern leaders in particular see it as a deliberate act to forestall the progress of the present government of Goodluck Jonathan in order to pave way for the Northerners to reclaim leadership role. It is a civil coup staged by Northern leaders with three aims: reduce Igbo population, destroy properties, and a breakup of the country.

Though the delicate act has swayed, senseless bombing and killing have spread through the North like wild fire, its aimless purpose cannot prevail. They have made Igbos appear to hate with the hatred of a rejected suitor but all along Igbo people have had to love all the tribes with the consuming affection of a mother’s love for her precocious child.

Riot and killing of Igbos are the immediate major cause of the Nigeria-Biafra war which altered the political equality and destroyed the fragile singleness among the major ethnic groups. As Igbos prepared to return home with news of continual brutality and chains of bombing against them, any form of peace negotiation with Federal Republic of Nigeria, the likes of the one which Late Lt.col. Ojukwu was called under the auspices of Gen,Ankrah of Ghana in Aburi, could be fruitless.

It is finished, late Ojukwu declared in 7 June, 1966, after May incident in North: ‘‘we are finished with the Federation. It is all a question of time’’. If all the three differing ethnics groups must coagulate, immediate steps should be taken to nullify all the degrees of genocide against the Igbo nation. The highest authority must make all condition suitable for co-habitation by the three ethnic groups as further means of lowering tension.
Without this, Igbos are through with the Federation. It is just a matter of time.----Patrick Amaefule